Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grandma always said to start with a warm kitchen—“It’s good for the cake and the soul.”
Prepare the [German chocolate cake mix] according to the package instructions, combining the [eggs], [vegetable oil], and [water] in a large bowl. Mix until smooth—no rushing here; Grandma believed good batter needed a little patience.
Pour the batter into a greased 9×13 inch pan. Bake for 30 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.
Let the cake cool for exactly 5 minutes—warm but not hot. Use the handle of a [wooden spoon] to poke holes about 1 inch apart across the surface. Grandma always said, “Don’t go all the way down or you’ll flood the bottom!”
In a small bowl, stir together the [sweetened condensed milk] and [caramel sauce]. Pour slowly over the cake, making sure it seeps into every hole. Do this in a crisscross pattern—Grandma’s signature move.
Allow the cake to cool fully at room temperature, then refrigerate for at least 2 hours. This is where the magic happens—everything settles and marries together like an old love story.
Once chilled, spread the [coconut pecan frosting] evenly over the cake using an [offset spatula]. Sprinkle with [chocolate chips] and [toasted pecans]. Gently press with the flat side of a measuring cup so the toppings nestle into the surface.