In a medium bowl, whisk together the softened [cream cheese], [Greek yogurt], [milk], [maple syrup], and [vanilla extract] until completely smooth. Grandma always said "patience with the whisking makes all the difference" - she'd make me count to 30 while whisking to ensure no lumps remained. This is the secret to that silky cheesecake texture!
Add the [rolled oats], [chia seeds], and pinch of [salt] to the mixture. Stir everything together until the oats are completely coated and evenly distributed. I remember watching Grandma do this step, always folding gently "like you're tucking a baby into bed," she'd say.
Gently fold in the diced [fresh strawberries], being careful not to mash them. Grandma taught me to handle berries "like little jewels" - you want those beautiful chunks of fruit throughout, not pink mush. Save a few pieces for morning garnish if you're feeling fancy.
Transfer the mixture to a mason jar or airtight container. Swirl in the [strawberry preserves] with a knife or spoon, creating pretty ribbons of color throughout the oats. Grandma called this "painting breakfast" and would let me make the swirls when I was little.
Cover tightly and refrigerate for at least 4 hours, but preferably overnight. The oats need this time to absorb all the liquid and soften completely. Grandma's handwritten note says "good things come to those who wait" right next to this recipe.
In the morning, give everything a good stir and top with [graham cracker crumbs] and extra fresh strawberries if desired. Sometimes I add an extra splash of milk if I want it creamier. Grandma always said "breakfast should make you smile," and this one definitely does!